When a married man learns that his wife has been having an affair with nine different men, he is devastated.
The government worker admitted that once his wife departed for her post-basic nursing training in 2017, things had been difficult in his marriage, which had been made worse by his hectic work schedule.
As he returned from work exhausted and unable to share a night of sleep with his wife when she arrived home for a break from school, their relationship gradually worsened, and she started to suspect him of infidelity.
As their relationship grew colder over time and she graduated from school in 2018, there was still no improvement. When he asked about it, she would respond that he wasn’t being romantic.
After he sent her off for her night shift in October 2021, a few years later, she realized she had left her phone in the car and called him from a coworker’s phone to ask him to help her charge it.
When he got home, he was overcome with the want to check her phone, but sadly discovered that it was locked.
Their little kid later opened the phone, and after looking through her phone, he learned what he had feared most.
Below is an excerpt from his post:
“Well, let me tell you my tale. In 2013, my wife and I were united in marriage; she is a nurse. I work for the federal government as a civil servant. Things were OK for a while, but around the time she obtained her nursing degree and left for school in 2017, things started to go south. To be honest, I was partly to blame because I was too busy at work and she kept trying to grab my attention, which became challenging. I was speaking with several women online, but I wasn’t physically having an affair with any women. Unknown to me, my wife tackled them head-on after learning about them. At one point, this led to an altercation, which we were able to resolve after which I apologized.
Our sex life was really difficult at those times, and I was at a loss for words as to why. Sometimes I’ll be so exhausted from work that I try to make love to my wife, but there won’t be an erection. She felt I was having sex with someone else, and as God is my testimony, I wasn’t. This caused it to become yet another problem. I made every effort to persuade her, but she either seemed convinced or simply wanted the matter to go away. Upon her mid-2018 graduation, we reconnected.
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